Somanawa Intimacy Coaching
Because Not All Love Looks the Same
Somatic relationship coaching for people whose brains, bodies, and hearts don’t fit the standard template, including neurodivergent, queer, kinky, and non-monogamous folx.
From navigating dating and partnership, to parenting and leadership, neurodivergent relationships are just a bit different. Somanawa Intimacy Coaching can help you navigate your ND life’s challenges with a deeper love for yourself, and a more empathetic connection with others.
At Somanawa, I specialise in intimacy and relationship coaching for those who are (or might be) neurodivergent, who are in relationship with those who are, and specialise in addressing the unique needs of those who are also non-monogamous, LGBTQIA+, and/or kinky, using somatic tools.
Whether you’re healing from trauma, struggling with communication, relationships, or other neurodivergent challenges—my work offers a somatic path to embodied transformation. I also work with ND parents and professionals to improve embodied leadership, connection and relationships at home and work.
Through coaching, workshops, online groups, courses and retreats, we slow down, listen to your body’s wisdom, and create safe space to reconnect with pleasure, self-trust and each other.
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Go Deep. Stay Present. Come Home to Your Bad@ss ND Self.
Let’s help you shift from feeling frustrated, misunderstood, and carrying unmet needs, to playful connection and deep intimacy.
Whether you’re healing from relationship rupture, struggling to connect, navigating polyamorous relationship dynamics, or exploring more creative intimacy, these spaces are for ND people ready to do the real work of transformation in both body and mind.
Somatic Intimacy Coaching
Private, personalised sessions help you go from unsatisfying relationships and intimacy to deep connection and pleasure.
I offer regular 1:1 coaching on a biweekly basis to half-day, full-day, or multi-day formats for you alone or with a partner.
These private sessions allow you to go deep, understand what is holding you back, or blocking your relationships and intimacy, and work towards healing.
intensives are deep dives into your specific desires, challenges, and nervous system needs. We slow down, drop into your body, and work with the edges—whether that’s around power, vulnerability, erotic communication, kink play, or somatic safety.
Sessions may include somatic coaching, body-based practice, breath work, movement, embodied kink frameworks, role play, parts work, rope (if desired), and structured integration.
Ideal for: Individuals or partners looking for focused, customised support beyond traditional weekly coaching.
Options:
✦ Biweekly 50-minutes sessions
✦ 1:1 Full-Day or Half-Day Intensives (in person or online) with optional 6- Week Integration Series (follow-up support)
✦ Custom Couple/Polycule or Kink Dynamics Sessions
This is a space for full permission without pressure.
Group Workshops
Live online or in-person group workshops.
Group intensives give you access to shared learning, nervous system support, relational practice, and desire exploration in a safe, facilitated container.
These workshops are carefully curated for clarity, consent, and co-regulation. No performance. Just practice, presence, and play—with others on the same path.
Topics may include:
- Neurodivergent Consent and Communication in Relationships
- Somatic Kink Practices
- Polyamory Prep School
- Coming out in mid-life
- Relationship Repair & Somatic Relationship Skills
Workshops Include:
✦ From 1 Hour to 3 Day Intensives (in person or online)
✦ Optional 6- Week Integration Series (follow-up support)
Coming together in community to explore, connect, and deepen our relationships.
This work is not about fixing yourself. It’s about reclaiming what was never broken.
If you’re ready for deep, embodied transformation through erotic truth, somatic presence, and radically attuned care, I’m here.
Reviews
Really useful, I like therapies that are more than just talking. I’ve done a lot of different therapies over the years and I find your interactive approach more helpful. Probably because as someone who is neurodivergent, touch is difficult for me sometimes but it also makes it more powerful when learning things and overcoming barriers.
— Rob T
Working with Chloé has been a life-changing experience. I’ve struggled with trusting myself and setting boundaries, and getting to practice feeling how my body responds to setting and receiving boundaries has totally transformed my ability to get what I want (and more importantly, avoid what I don’t!)
— Jessica H
I was surprised how close the subjects of intimacy and relationships were related to the subjects I discuss at ‘regular’ therapy. It taught me that sexuality is more closely related to the rest of my inner world than I previously expected or understood. Now, I’m feeling more comfortable and accepting my body more. I’ve even started having glimpses of fantasies compared to having none before! It was really nice to feel heard and to learn more about my sexuality on a deeper emotional level.
— Paula L